Here you are Andy! I wondered what happened to you. I hopped over here to catch on to some people that have gotten back together after being separated to ask what they did while they were where I am now. He's still gone after 4 months. ME-trying still to DETACH. Some days good, some days, impossible. I still have a problem not contacting him, waiting on him. It's called fear. Fear that he won't, but I am getting better-I'm going for longer periods of times w/o contacting him. When we are together I am learning to shut up and listen to what ever it is he has to say no matter how ludicrous it is-and that is no easy feat. SO.....for all you that were separated and wondering if you were EVER going to get your S to come home, please tell me, in your opinion what was it you did or did not do that was most instumental in getting your S to reconsider and give your R another try?? RACHAEL
