Bunny, if you can manage to plow your way through my very long post on the Safety thread today, you'll get a good description of my come to Jesus talk. It's a lot like the email that Chrome sent his wife and my bf's responses were a lot like Chrome's wife's responses, i.e., just be patient with me.

When we're dealing with day to day stuff, my bf is a prince. He holds up his end of the household stuff, is not moody, will DO anything I ask without complaint-- cook something, run to the store. As long as we keep to the busy things of life, it's perfect.

As soon as we get into the feeling zone, it gets dicey. And if we get into the sexual zone... it gets weird. I can't pin it down.

During romantic movie scenes (that aren't too sexy) his responses are lovely... makes little "awww" sounds, smiles, etc. In fact we watched The Vagina Monologues together and I thought he would be shocked and grossed out, but his responses were very appreciative, sensitive, mature. I can't nail it down.

I know the ED is an issue. I've posted a lot about that in the past. And I think there's a weird vibe between him and his mom.

Having guests for din-din, so must run. Steak, salad, grilled veggies, strawberries-- yum!