RE Lil My bf is also very prudish. When we met I didn't hesitate to undress in front of him, but his squeamishness has made me feel uncomfortable about it, so I don't anymore
I would agree at his house or if the girls are at your house. But do what you like at your house. Nothing wrong with a quick change of clothing.
My bf fully expects me to walk out on him just like his ex-wife did.
Is that your depressor talking? (Yes, I finished the book)
but I don't know what to do, so until I do, I guess I'll just be patient some more.
And in the meantime asking for and "taking" what you need I hope!
he still feels like a baby chick that has newly hatched with the wet feathers and blinking into the sunlight.
That is difficult to believe especially someone that had been through what your bf has (not thinking about his X leaving) and his mother being so frank, uninhibited.
but he said if I can't (meaning that I would have to leave), he would understand.
Would he be able to commit to anyone? Is it that you two are not a match, or is he like one of my friends, Like=yes, love=maybe, commit=not likely, marry/or something short of marriage=probably never. Maybe your bf is living for and in the now/day w/o worrying about the future.
THAT broke my heart...
I feel for you Lil. Wish you were making more progress.
(Yes, I finished the book)
