Hmmm... are you thinking that the C is not getting the picture that your H is very inhibited? But when she saw you on your own, I'm sure you made that very clear. Puzzling for sure.

Your H was married twice before... any idea of the sexual state of things in those R's?

Does your H acknowledge that his SD is kind of minimal... or does he just think you're "oversexed"?

My bf is also very prudish. When we met I didn't hesitate to undress in front of him, but his squeamishness has made me feel uncomfortable about it, so I don't anymore. I mentioned on this board one time that in some movie the scene showed Nicole Kidman in bed with someone and the camera was looking down from above and showed her face up with the back of the guy's head next to hers. Then the camera backed up so that soon we would see the full length of both of their bodies, and my bf said something like, "Whoa! Don't back that camera up! We don't want to see that!" Whereupon I said, "Well, *I* want to see it!"

When will you see the C together?