You were reading my mind (again) when you wrote that last reply...weren't you....
That's it. EXACTLY.
Hey Andy-that kid of yours is pretty darn smart, you know?
And you are right too; finding peace in what you have is the key. Not living in the past or hoping for things you may never have. The struggle here, for me, is that although I may make 'peace' with things the way they are, I will always on some level wish that they could be the way they were before the A (when I thought, as Matilda said-I would have bet my life on H's fidelity)....which means I have NOT really REALLY made 'peace'...huh.
