Burying the past. Well, I don't know how to do that. In my sit, i am trying to get my W to think about the past,and all the good times we have had. But, then again, I'm trying to get her to see that the bad times really weren't so bad. And they weren't.
She says that she can't remember the good times, adn that she knows there haven't been hardly any bad times. When we went to the C together, he told me that W has said that I am a remarkable man, and that any woman would want me in their life. She can't figure out why she doesn't want me to be intament with her. She has a lot of things to look at in her life that led to this point, and she is definitly looking now.
I haven't read up on all your threads yet, trying to do a little everyday. d2