Win, You are never going to be 100% sure. But are you even if your H is at home. Anything can happen at any time. I rented the movie Dinner with Friends a little boring but it kind of gives the message about working on things to make it work. Keeping it fun and alive. I have done things now that I wouldnt ever imagine I would do. It is fun being the OW. H is on his way home right now I am writing to you all fixed up with a glass of wine and I cant wait to see him. He has called me 3 time today was curious to know why I went to work early and why I came home late tonight. I really was working but he had his doubts. He is selling that house he bought when he left us and I really dont care about that place. I did ask him if he was ok about it because he did buy it to get out of his depression and we did have one fun night there. He only likes to have sex in the morning so I know he will be snoring logs not long after he is home. It is like they come home from there MLC and because they are exhausted and home the W will let them lie on the couch like they did before. Not in this house he has to take me out every week and I know have a vase that is constantly filled with flowers.(Thats a long story the flowers It might be earlier on this post. Check it out for future.) Keep in touch, Loretta