Hello Loretta, firstly congratulations for being here, I so envy you. I posted this question on Optimistic's thread but thought I would ask you the same question:
"My h has been gone 3 months now although he dropped the bomb 10 months ago. He has no one else and has moved back in with his mum, we have been married for 25 years (24 when the bomb was dropped). For the past 3 months I have hardly seen or heard from him, did your H have a period when he first left where he didn't contact you?? and if he did how did you dbust when you didn't see or hear from him??"
