I just read your reply to another situation about your H sex drive. I'm like you, I enjoy sex very much (scorpio and Italian) and I love the female anatomy. I could have sex once a day if not more but my W like to wait for the right time. We alaways enjoyed a good sex life, we pleased each other and explored new passionate areas. Since our D we have been in OR, mine stopped 7 months ago because I wanted to be back w/ my W and have been working on me, no OR. She however has been confused and she does not llike to be alone and has been in 2 OR. I think she is realizing that we had so much love and caring and I think she is coming arounD. The I love you's and respect and caring and the trust is resurfacing. She has said, no one makes me feel as safe as you and are you still thinking of getting back together. Mind you, the ball is in her court. Since she has not had time to herself (OR) she hasnt been able to take time to work on her. I think now the OR could be disolving and she is thinking of us again. Im just afraid of losing her, but she has been so much more consistent w/ me and I have backed off and focused entirely on me and I think it is showing. I havent had sex since I left my last relationship and I'm busting at the seems. I am not looking or even thinking about it. My focus is on getting my W back. So, Im frustrated sexually and emotionally. Hang in there and good luck to you, your husband doesnt know just how lucky he is to have a W who enjoys the bedroom.....
