I would have settled with a $4.99 bunch of flowers from basic. Yes you are right put the vase away. I have. I think all the alcohol he has drank over the years has caused him to loose a few brain cells. I do notice he is forgetful and that he had blank moments when he was MLCing doesnt remember events pictures that were taken. I think he was doing alot of drinking when he was away.
I think it is true what I have read that when alcohol is in the relationship you dont have a relationship.
I am so happy for you with all your small steps. I hope you really get what you want and you and your w live happily ever after. And that you get the love you so rightly deserve. I took my wedding ring and hid it, I said I threw it away that it didnt mean anything to him so I wouldnt be wearing that ring again. I have to start fresh with a new one. Not that a new one has been offered to me. I guess if I cant get any flowers out of him I wont be getting a new ring either.
I had a fabulous day at work,I am so happy to be alive and healthy. I pray God keeps me this way for a longtime.
Keep in touch, You are handling things beautifully, Loretta