patientheart, What else ya got? I just stuck to 13 because it was the Theme of my postings for the day. It NEVER hurts to share what helps to keep you focusing on yourself rather than them. Feel free to add them to this thread. Thanks!


    almosthopeless, You are quite welcome for the list. I can attest to the fact that it is very hard to focus, period, in the midst of all this. That obsessing can drive a person insane, eh?

    Snodderly, Thank you. As you can see from my low post count, I tend to post only when I feel quite the burden to do so. I truly believe that if the "don'ts" that are listed could be heeded, it would lead to a much more serene DB-er.
    It is indeed so much easier to deal with the storm surrounding us when we can take a step back and just chill for a time.

    Lissett, Hello! I am glad you were able to find the list in the stacks. Thats my posting style ~ short, sweet and to the point. I am very glad that you found it helpful. You are so very welcome.


~ swl

Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}