What happened prior to him coming home. My W and I are divorced 1 year now and we have been going back and forth, you know the rollercoaster ride. She is in OR, says it's a day by day thing and there is no committement. She doesn't want to loose me. She knows I love her and want to try again. We have talked about this but not lately. We even opened a joint savings account 2 weeks ago and she gave me her credit card for emergencies. We love each other and want each other in our lives but she is not clear of what she wants. She went skiing last weekend is gone again this weekend wich kills me. I have great friends who support me as well as a great C and author of "Getting Back Together". It's just she won't let go either way. She dropped our dog off to me this for the weekend and appreciates that I am there for her. She says I care for you and will always love you. She acts like all is well w/ us. My clothes and things are all still at the house. I am sharing a home and have some of my things but most of my things are there. I know this guy see's it and I have to wonder. We had breakfast 2 weeks ago and had a great time. She wanted to open a joint savings account and gave me her credit card. I know she wants me in her life, we got close several times but she is still teeter totering. What was it like w/ you after the first year. I love her and I dont want to give up. I have done a 180 and was not at home when she dropped our dog off. She sent me an email and wondered if that I was having a valentines dinner w/ someone. I didnt email her responses so she thought I was going out. She said, I hope you have fun because you deserve it. So what did you do. I want her back the right way. Like you, completly over a relationship. And I want her to come to me, otherwise it wont work. But she acts so distant at times. She wont let me go, this I know but yet she goes skiing 2 weekends in a row and we talk and see each other and share our dog. What do you think?
