Loretta: don't ever be embarrassed to tell us what is going on or of your fears. I certainly understand. Just think how hard it was for me to post when he left again at Christmas. If I wasn't receiving emails from Wonder Woman at that time i would have lost it. I couldn't bear for all of you to know at Christmas when I was the "success" story. Now I know that there are many backslides & none of this is easy. I had a really good laugh when I read your post. You talked about you & your husband clebrating Super Bowel! that was just too funny. I think my H's OW (Maggot) is very obsessed too & I'm sure they will not split without a battle. he is obsessed now too, so wonder how it will end. No one ever wins in these situations. I know you want to trust you H & wish he didn't lie to you. You could always have him followed if you are not sure. I think I would resort to this if we ever get back & I have my doubts. Barb