Hi, Perhaps it is because I just watched CoalMiner's Daughter twice through,but it occurs to me that perhaps YOU should pay her a visit. Like Sissy, tell her if she wants to keep her arm she better keep it off of your HUSBAND. And of course, You aren't woman enough to steal my man OR Honey I don't know who you are (or care) but I sure know WHAT you are.
I envision doing something to hurt the reputation of the OW in my life. She is a doctor and I keep thinking I really could mess with her. I have been trying so hard to let time and God handle it. But it never hurts to pretend a bit.
In your case, you could check into the laws of your state and see what you could improvise. If she goes to church, an appropriate prayer in the Sunday 'prayer sheet' re God help save my family from the adulterous ...... might help? Or calling her family. Or a newspaper ad with her pic...calling a slut a slut. HEHEHEHEHHEHE