Need advice from successful DBers. Situation My H has been home for 7 months after MLC lasting 2 years. He decided that he loved me and wanted to come home. 6months before he came home he was separating from the OW. She wasnt happy called me once crying why do you want him he is mine. He said she is obsessed with him and is following him, waiting for him after work. Follows him in her car. The past 7 months have great with H me and the kids and still is. Last night my daughter received a phone call at 1015pm from the CIBC asking for Mr.SoandSo. He got on the phone. And said I didnt get themessage at work to call. I will call the band tomorrow. Person kept talking and he kept trying to get off the phone. When he got off the phone I said who was that it couldnt be the bank. He denied it. My daughter unfortunately picked up the phone and heard OW say to her dad. I am going to make your F...ing life hell. Daughter came upstairs yelling daddy you are a liar. He admitted to it said the OW has been waiting for him. States he called her 3 weeks ago to ask her why she is doing this. Daughter said for the past 7 months she has been getting the same phone calls from theCIBC. Not telling me so I wouldnt get upset. This was the first time she called her Dad to the phone. Please advise I dont know how to handle myself After successfully DBing I am at a loss. I must admit I am not really upset because I have read about after the affair. Loretta
