Rachel, glad to see you here. I recognize your *smile*! You were good to have hang around back in the old days. Remember Mountie and Narcy? I think I saw Narcy the other day. I slept on her couch a few nights!
Rachel, what are you afraid of? (I could guess but maybe you can spell it out for me?)
Some of the puzzle peices may have been lost. Some will never fit because they are from a different puzzle. Some are still upside down. Some are really hard to do (Like the white cow in the snowstorm eating vanilla ice cream (I like that)).
I was given this advice over on the hopefullness board by a wise person named novix
quote: Don't stop DBing and continue to work on yourself, enjoy your time with your wife and try not to worry about future steps just yet. I try to look at this as a 4 goal process. 1) Date wife 2) get feelings back for each ohter 3)move back in 4) work on what went wrong in the first place. I think these have to be done in that order for each of us to put in 100% effort.
PS. You may have to substitute the word wife for husband but I am sure you can handle it!
