**************************************** Having said that, this “piecing” business is harder than I thought it would be. In a perfect world, the pieces would have all quickly fit back together. But I seem to be stalling for some reason. And I feel a bit like H is getting anxious and impatient for “things to get back to normal”. Maybe I’m just getting “cold feet” or “Pre-Re-Wedding” jitters….lol….H wants to renew our vows in the Spring, (on our 12th anniversary) but he’s very anxious to move back home NOW. I’m still reluctant…somebody tell me I’m not a freak.
************************************************* Your no freak. Piecing is hard. Guess what? The old pieces may not fit togather anymore. Sometimes a little trimming and reshaping is necessary to get a desirable finished product.
I'm not sure if I would delay getting back togather too long. You will always be able to find excuses. I think it's easier to piece when you are togather.
Try to look at why you might be so hesitant. What effort has been going into reconciling and forging a new R? What have you done? What has H done?
