If you want to get your feelings back for him, he is going to have to do somethings for you. My H was miserable, angry, person before. He is better know and I will call him on his behaviour that I dont like. I am trying to make myself happy now, If he want to be a part of it he will comply. So far so good. I do alot for my H. But know I expect somethings in return. Like make me a coffee. Cut up vegetables with me while preparing dinner. It makes me feel appreciated. I dont mind picking up the heavy end but I do need someone helping at the other end. Before I did it all. I realized that even though I did everything nice food, clean clothes and house it didnt prevent him from straying, living on his own doing everything for himself. So I had to change. To make me happy. Just my thoughts. Loretta
