Hmmm kinda fence sitting myself on this one. Telling your feelings is a good thing but making sure they are received the way you send them is probably the most difficult thing people can do. Even those in solid healthy relationships. I kinda like the approach ... this comming from Mr Obsessive ... of deciding and stating this is where Im going. Thats it. No it would be nice if you joined us on the journey, no I wish you felt the same way, no I hope it is what you want. It is kinda like an ultimatum but more empowering because it is really just what you are doing. And it doesn't carry the ultimatum "can't change my mind" mantra. Of course this is from a guy coming off a high. Bet those lobsters were yum yum yummy!
