quote:Originally posted by ANS: If you effectively Drop hints, it comes off as manipulation, guilt trips, emotional blackmail. The other possible outcome is that he won't even catch on.
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Something like, "I know that nothing's going on, but I can't shake the bad feelings."
I agree 100% with Andy.
It sounds like you feel very strongly about this..so go for it. Use "I" satements.Don't get defensive..keep it simple