I would think it would be normal for him to be a little gun shy right now. Remember how badly he must have been hurt. Trust takes times to rebuild.

I would keep it slow, don't push him, just be happy and have fun again. These good memories you will be creating will help replace the sad ones.

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wed2alien

Both 49, M 23 years
3 teens
April 2004- bomb, moved out
April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time
May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!!
Nov 2006-- Moved home
May 2008- Things still getting better