Well, I don't have much time to post here... but if he's that angry only you can decide if it's worth it... And if you think so, then you can always do it in a letter or a phone call. Don't take on the blame and don't place blame, but tell him you wouldn't mind exploring whether or not the two of you can start a new relationship. If he says yes, then I guess the next thing to do is ask him what he thinks went wrong in the M. And see if he'll go to joint counseling (in addition to individ. counseling) Good luck.
