Ok, but in the past month I sent him an email to ask how he was doing. He said he missed me but was getting better. I responded and told him I missed him too. But he never replied back. I waited a week and sent him a random email about mail,etc. He responded and told me to remember to change the oil in my car...this I thought was a sign that he still cared because it was the first time he responded to tell me something that he didn't need to anymore. I replied back with a funny story about the oil change...then no response. I thought I had made the move by opening the lines of communication again in a casual way...I thought if he was interested he would write back and keep the conversation going..but he did not. And I am confused. And that's why I keep wondering if a reconciliation is possible or not.
But I am afraid to ask because he might just laugh at me. Or he may never respond again (like the other times), which I guess will give me an answer but it will also make me crazy wondering if he will ever respond and if and when I should just move on. I guess that's the risk I have to take? I'm curious as to how long is too long to wait to ask about a reconciliation? We have been apart 6 months and divorced for 2 months. We live in different states so it's not like we can randomly meet up and have this discussion. Is 2 months too soon? Is it too late? I don't even know what I would say...i don't like using the word "reconciliation"...any suggestions?
