My husband and I separated 6 months ago after 3 years of marriage, no kids. We are divorced 2 months. It was a quick divorce that neither of us wanted but we were so angry at the time. Also, I had immigration issues that he refused to help with so I had to divorce him to get my citizenship. He has anger issues. He claims that my family controls him and me, even though we don't live in the same state as them and see them maybe 8 days of the year. My ex-husband and I now live in different states. Before the divorce he called and emailed me all the time. After the divorce he told me I ruined everything and he hated me and considered me dead. I know people say things when they are hurt. I emailed him a couple weeks ago and he said he missed me but was getting over it. I miss him so much. He never initiates contact with me. I send him random emails to ask him about mail, etc and he responds, sometimes he doesn't. I want to ask him if he would think about working toward a reconciliation, but I don't know how to approach the topic. Do I call and ask him? If yes, what do I say? Do I email him? If yes, what do I say? And what if he doesn't respond? Do I just leave him alone and try to forget and move on because he clearly is showing no interest?
