IMP you are so right and I should be on your post shouldn't I ...sorry. What I mean with the communication is I believe it is up to the sender to make sure the reciever gets the message. So asking for clarifacation in my mind is good communication. It tells the sender you are not getting what you want to say across here, try again please. And your right they don't know what they want. My W and I had a phone sorta OR tonight and it sucked. I asked what she wanted. She said I think a divorce. I said no really what do you want? She has no flippin idea aside from telling me what I want or think. I corrected her in that citing she should ask what I think cause only I know that. None the less right agian about reality. Reality is Tree and H have a marriage despite the condition of same. Which is a much better place to build from then where I am at. I am convinced, despite not knowing Tree's H that this is a result of her efforts. (thats a compliment Tree). Are we not all just looking to find a place that is good for everyone. I said to W tonight this is all very sad. She replies it was ALL sad. So that goes to where her head is. DB DB DB I believe! Go Imp!
