I agree Tree is a great women. And if you want to stay east Tree don't get back o nthat flight. Lovely job for you down her at Acadia.
[Big Grin] Hmmm man in uniform too [Big Grin]
I have been thinking a lot lately and am guilty of something that I am not sure is pertinent or not. I have focused this whole time (11 Months since I checked out) on showing how I have improved, on the importance of our marriage for the kids etc....
I haven't spent a great deal of time focusing on what the benifits would be for her. She wants out or wants something (I don't think she knows) because she wants to be happy with her. So maybe it has to be about them. What is it that they're missing that they need or want. Of course communication could solve the whole dilema but who the heck knows how to communicate. If we all did most of us would not be in our sitchs. Well personally anyway.
In my case she readily acknowledges my changes but I don't believe feels them. If she did the comment about if I was in a bad way you would be nowwhere to be found illustrates that. And OMs (that testing of the waters) would be non existent.
Hope to link this week Tree, but if not June is good!