FC I like that! thanks IMP I sure do feel the "shake down" you gave me. It's been awhile! I hear your rants all the way here!!!

Thanks all very much. Andy... you are over taking me on the DB wise guy road. Shucks... no thanks needed... we are ALL here to support each other. There are days when I still sound and feel like a total newbie desperate for something that will work.
Ladies... breathing deep and slow and will not freak over dinner. New shoes sound like a good plan. It's spring now I think ( you'd never know it with the weather we've been having) Might call for some new spring colours in the lingerie dept yes? [Wink]
IMP - moi? look like a hag? I am just NOT wired that way honey. [Razz] The arsenal of Mary Kay in my bedroom precludes that possiblity - never mind all the matching thingys... ... although... who knows it might be worth it eh? LOL!!! A definite 180!

My biggest problem is my totally over active imagination. I just GOTTA get those murder mystery books written. It would make MUCH better use of my "what ifs" then the pacing over the dang dinner with colleagues. All of you tlaking me down has been helpful.
Dar... even you're becoming a wise guy... impressive actually! thanks.

Suck it up I will... I'll keep you all posted. It is soooooooo appreciated.