First I agree with those who have said to let this go. I don't know if you gain anything on this as it is a dinner with colleagues. However, there is a flip side to doing nothing when you feel like doing something. Do something when you feel like doing nothing. It seems to me that you're just going along. There is still the question of whether or not communication is occurring in your house. Also, as I posted before, DBing does say to do something different. What are you doing differently? Try looking like hell for a day or two and see if there is a reaction...lol!
Tree, I have told you before at some time, you may need to shake things up. The reason for this is that I was guy who was in a funk for a number of years. My W leaving shook me up pretty damn good. Having said that I know you would never leave in such an awful way.
