You’re right, Z. The longer you’re at this, the more analytical you get. Fille and other have been slapping me around for months about being overly analytical. But, in my case, the reason isn’t that I think she’s trying to “get something” out of me. I truly believe that when she does something for me (or anyone else for that matter), she does it for me (or the other person). My issue is that I’ve received so many conflicting statements that I don’t know if she’s saying something, or acting in a certain way to save my feelings, or is she being genuine.
If it were anyone other than my W, I wouldn’t care. But I do care and always will care about how my W genuinely feels about me.
