quote:Originally posted by treesa2: Does he do them because he feels he "has to" or because he "wants to?" Who knows. But I do wonder about this.
Has to? Wants to? It’s the same thing. Of course, he doesn’t want to have to. When one human being shows compassion to another, it’s completely voluntary. He would feel “obligated” to do the “right thing” for any good friend – even if it were to make him feel out of character. But, he’d want to do the right thing.
Don’t know if I explained this right, but all I’m saying is that for him to do something for you, on your terms, is a good thing. He doesn’t have to do anything he doesn’t want to do.
BTW, sorry your mom isn't doing better. Andy
[ April 09, 2002, 12:11 PM: Message edited by: ANS ]
