Well... it's been awhile...
Cable access show... snort snort... have some ideas for you Fee but.... shall save that for a private email ok? [Smile]

So... another story...
Our neighbours - I'll call them Jim and Jane.... split last summer. Jane is the WAW... Jim was devastated at the time.. I gave him the DR book after my H told me about them. She's so alien - fits the patterns we see here all the time.
Jim and I chatted a lot because I told him about our sitch. He was very very surprised because of course, my H has said nuttin to no one! Jim and H play sport together one evening a week.

Well Jane asked Jim to leave... They have been separated since Sept and Jim now has a new female friend. He stopped with the sport because of the new romance and my H and "the boys" are quite PO'ed about the whole thing.

Jim and I have had several long talks about his sitch, I warned him about what I figured would happen with Jane and if I do say so myself, I read things pretty accurately. In spite of her "fling" with the cliche guy at work, she's been having doubts and calls Jim a lot and I believe trying to find a way back. But Jim is pretty much done and couldn't do the DB thing.

Well Jim is now getting hot and heavy with new LF - they are buying a house together... and Jane is pretty much out of the picture... in spite of the fact that she's a mess.

So.... H and I are talking this weekend and he mentions about Jim not being around and that his new LF seems to have him on a tighter leash than Jane ever did. AND H then pipes up and says... "ya know dear... he seems to have gone out of the fire and into the fry pan. I just don't think he's behaving the way he should!"

Well to think that about 16 months ago, my H was ready to go the same route with a new LF himself and somehow seems to have curbed that desire from what I can tell. He sure is not impressed with friend Jim even though Jim was the deceived party and all that... curious.

We spent a very nice Easter with friends. Saturday evening dinner was a tad tense... with the teeny bopper daughter in serious selfish ME mode driving us all a tad mad... However we seemed to have survived yet another of her hormonal outbursts... and keep hoping she shows a human side occaisionally! [Roll Eyes] This adolescent behaviour showed itself at church on Easter Sunday when again while at Mass I thought I was going to throttle her, and realized... oh gee I am in a holy place on the holiest day of the year... there's got to be a better way... and so... chose to ignore her bopper behavior... which seemed to work.

Prayers, hard work, zipping up with duct tape, supporting him whenever he does talk about work and stuff, letting him run the kitchen.. and just letting go... has really seemed to work for me and us. Slowlee slowlee... this monkey has his foot in the camp and in the trap....

tree
who actually has DONE a cable access show of her own.... really Fee... I'll send you the tapes! I was a cable star!
( ok.. I hosted a talk show talking to lawyers.... OMG... ever try to make civil litigation look interesting... never mind commercial law!)

[ April 01, 2002, 11:49 AM: Message edited by: treesa2 ]