What you said sounds familiar, lily.

I have to have one of the most observant 11 year olds on the planet. When my R started floundering, he told W to stop making me unhappy.

Observant, but not paricularly helpful.

Guess that's what made W think that I was placing us in an adversarial position.

It's hard to DB alone. Even harder if you have "allies"

Andy

Andy