I think it's so interesting how some C's (like our MC) think this site is a good thing and a very useful tool...while others view it as a distraction or a thing to avoid that is destructive.
What I've appreciated about our C is that she listens to my motives for coming on here....heck I'm sure she's checked this place out herself by now. Her opinion is as long as I use this site in an appropriate manner (ie, support, venting, & feedback) and don't use it to avoid addressing issues in person with my H then....this is a good/healthy thing for me to do.
