I tried the MC thing and it was the WORST thing that could have happened to us. He was a complete idiot. I was sure the m was over after that one session. Luckily my H could spot it too. We are working on DR together and having so much better results. THIS WEBSITE AND BB SAVED MY MARRIAGE!
MC have HUGE egos just like Doctors. If this is where you find answers, GO FOR IT! Don't let some idiot MC give you any psycho babble. Do what feels right.
I was so relieved to find other people in the same sich's. It gave me hope, gave me another point of view (other than my own emotional one.) It felt so good to have people identify with my sitch and give their opinions.
Look for the BB gurus. The ones with hundreds of postings if not thousands. If you can find - IamTJ - he's great. johnjames is awesome too.
You are doing the right thing by being here where we support each other, receive good advice and people really care. I agree with the last posting - don't pay your MC bill and see how much they care.
