unless my fiance is involved, i don't want to be a part of this. thank you for all of your help everyone.
If you dont feel comfortable with it then by all means dont be a part of it. It is not here to make people uncomfortable. Also if you wanted to involve your fiance in it, then ask her if she wants to get involved. She might. She might not. There is nothing at all wrong with making that a joint decision. There are couples who post here jointly and they are often very helpful with the insights they are able to offer from that perspective. If you decide not to come back, thanks for stopping by anyway and we all wish you nothing but the best with your future spouse.
