Hi maybetime,

I'm so happy I found these boards. As you can see, I'm new here. I've been reading and reading, and already I'm feeling hopeful. I haven't told my husband, and I'm not sure I will. He doesn't like BB or chat rooms anyway. I don't think it's unethical. I view it like a support group.

Alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07