it has occurred to me after being here less than a week that this is not ethical.
no matter how helpful it is for me... i am talking to strangers about my fiance and relationship without her knowledge. it doesn't seem right. trust is at the center of any successful relationship.
what's different about it than simply talking with friends over coffee? there are several differences. friends may not have as much in common with you as these 'subject specific' boards regarding an issue... but they know you on a deeper level. connecting with people on 'specific issues' creates a certain kind of relationship that is devoid context - no matter how detailed our stories may become.
i know this thread may be very unpopular. but my resistance to other on-line communities renders me a hypocrite here. as wonderful, accepting, and helpful as all of you have been even in my one week stay here.
unless my fiance is involved, i don't want to be a part of this. thank you for all of your help everyone.
