Hi Tree, Thanks for the post. I think I actually have something to contribute here. I have been on the other side of the you are supposed to know what I want because you love me. I have to say as powerful as love is it has not successfully made me a mind reader. I have been going through almost a year of "tests" without knowing what the right answer is. It hurts to be in this position. Not sure where you H is coming from, just speaking to what I feel. I think it is a natural tendency to expect others to be able to understand our needs, but we have to tell them what they are to give them the chance. I do really appreciate your support on my thread. Hope you don't mind me shotting you down. Later, SO aka TG
