Hello treesa!
I'd say it certainly sounds like your hard work is paying off. You're wise to take it slowly and ask questions of whether you're really piecing yet or not. My mistakes at reconciliation included anticipating the return of complete intimacy too quickly, backsliding on hardwon new behaviours, and assuming I could realx, and stop DBing. So on that note, I'd say you have a good chance given your caution and wisdom.
Bon chance,
Alex