I moved my thread over here at one point and Duchess told me to stick w Newcomer's; the more experienced DB check there regurlarly and you might miss their expertise if you're not posting there. I'd suggest that you read the stuff here and if something strikes a chord then post on that person's thread. They might respond in their thread or go see yours in Newcomer's.
My thread sort of snapped when I realized H might come visit the bb.
This is real hard and I wish you didn't have to deal with this. My H and I have been married more than 28 years and I wish that we'd gone for counseling years ago when H felt we should seek help. My hope for you is that your marriage is having a 'reality' check and that necessary Emotional Needs changes can be made now so that your marriage will be stronger. If I'd only known way back then what I know now. . .
