I have posted some of my problem on another post but I was looking for some help so I'm posting it on a new topic. Husband left with OW...then she found out he wanted both so she left. He came home. Before and after always talking about selling our home. I had some inheritance that basically is gone with his businesses etc. Now the house is left. He told me he would give it a year. Well, its been 17 months. He has worked 7 months of that. His father got ill and his company folded so now he is still looking for work. Last night he told me that this is the way it will be....We will sell the house this year...I will move with him by his parents..quit my 10 year job and we would get a divorce but I will be close to help take care of his family and that I will always be family. He will get some land for him and get me and our son a house paid for. No matter what we will be buried together...he won't marry anyone but maybe live with someone. He may come back to me but if I'm with someone..it won't happen. He is gone thru some sort of Mid Life Crises. He says he is half way thru his life and he needs to be single. I think this is a crock and all he wants is half the house. He said he has tried but I don't think he has really tried. We still have a year until he thinks we will sell the house to work on us. I have had people say...stand up for yourself and don't give in. He is trying to manulupate me for what HE wants. Please help on this...I think he may have had this all planned to begin with and just acted out being home. I'm really confused but I don't want to be taken to the cleaners or HURT ANYMORE!!! Rowena
