Andy, it sounds like W still has some confusion about you, what she wants in the R, and what she is willing to give to the R. She's still trying to put all the blame on you, although it sounds like she realizes that is what she is doing.
And of course it's not all Quebec that's bothering you. It's good she realizes that.
It's still pretty fragile, isn't it? It was good she called you at work and talked some more. She must have realized at some point how the OR talk felt to you.
I just called my H to update him on something. He wasn't friendly at all, but he wasn't unfriendly, if you get my drift. Felt like I was talking to a stranger!
