Quote: I'm still hopeful our relationship will turn around and be healthy and happy. Maybe this move will be good for us.??
Sweetherat, hope is all well and good, but this sitch will not get better all by itself. The move alone will probably NOT make things better-- why would it?
Are you uncertain about giving up your childhood home and moving? Are you secretly thinking, "If I make this sacrifice for him, he will naturally want to make a sacrifice for me?" If so, down that path lies resentment. If you want to move and you can do it wholeheartedly, fine-- but if you're thinking that will flip some switch and change him... think again.
Refresh my memory and bring us up to date... what are y'all actually DOING to make this marriage better for each other. What are you doing? What is he doing?
