I just wanted to let you know you are not at all alone in your situation. I too have a low drive husband who had a supposed ea...dealt with a seperation...had him return with the ssm issue seeming to be resolved ( that was really a great time!!) only to return to the same old pattern of only when he wants it (which is not very often..even went 6 months with nothing at all but myself ugh!), My not initiating due to fear of rejection and the aggrivation going alone with being rejected.
It's a tough road to travel. sure there are times when I think to myself "I let him come home for this?" but I know that right now my kids and I are better off having him here even though there still seems to be something missing.
I'm not giving up hope but I'm having a hard time hanging in there as well.
You may notice that I have an obsene number of posts...please note the date as well and realize those posts have been accumilated over a number of years and that the majority of them were made during the seperation and threat of d from my h (all while I was under thirty with two kids under 3 mind you). I don't post often anymore but if you post again I'll keep an eye out for you and maybe we can help eachother figure out these enigmas were married to.
I noticed you only made one post. Hopefully you'll get back to us soon and let us know how things are going.
