Yes, I agree with what Lil says about not "mothering" your H any longer. Doing that runs the danger of putting you into a mother role with him....and that can also be counter productive when it comes to him seeing you as someone who is sexual....if you treat him like a mother would, you are likely to be treated like a mom too. Make sense?
Your H is making choices as to his own health, my H does too. I remind him that I can't make him eat/do anything...those are choices he makes, but he also needs to remember he's not the only one affected by his health issues...both our son and myself are affected as well. However, I am the one who will end up having to take care of him.....and if he runs into health issues due to things he had control over, well...I'm not going to be very happy about it.
That's about all I can do. I buy healthy stuff...if he wants something else he has to go get it. If you buy healthy stuff and your H isn't happy about that...guess what? That's his problem...not yours. He can get up and go buy those things he wants too....tell him so.
