Cloe, OK. I think the key is open, intimate communication. Get him to understand exactlyhow you feel and LISTEN to him trying to put yourself in his shoes. You might consider taking him to a "Worldwide Marriage Encounter" weekend. They give you the tools to improve your intimate communication, and while MrsGGB was willing to participate in it, it did wonders for us. It isn't easy to do, and I guess she decided it was too hard. We haven't done it for quite a while now and have pretty much lost all the ground we had gained. Unfortunately, she doesn't see it as a problem.
