Yes, GH. I don't buy the line that "you didn't love me eough to stop me". You CAN'T stop her, Muddle. If she really wants you to stop her than what she is saying is she wants you to control her, dominate her, treat her like a child or an object to be owned etc. Is that really what you want in your m? You must treat her like a responsible adult (although she ain't acting like one) in order to ever get to a point where you will be to some degree equals in a R. The macho take her down with you idea sucks. Definately, do not use your son as a weapon against her. Not only is that morally wrong, it is setting up a really bad future. You threaten a kids status with mom and she will become the worst enemy you ever had! I still say, let her go! You've let her know what she is doing is wrong, now let her live her life. You have no moral guilt to feel here at all. Besides, she might hate the guy! Just my 2 cents. P.S. Again, I know how hard it is to watch the love of your life go off to be with someone else. I know, man.
