you know muddle, this thought just came to me, that maybe this is what your wife is longing for.
me and my w went to a marriage seminar, a round table full of couples, 22 in all. the one common thing amoung the women there, mostly involved in a, the one thing they all said is that they felt there husband did not love them enough to fight for them. they felt that the marriage was over, mainly because they did not feel the love that they wanted so bad from thier husbands, my wife included. is this your wife? i dont know, but i bet part of it is. one more story, a long time friend of mine, female, is now seperated from her husband. she has told me several times that she wished her husband would fight for her like i did with my wife. she shook the tree and nothing happened. he has not fought for her, not once. the sad thing now she feels like he never loved her and she has filed for divorce. have you ever even talk to your wife about your feelings you have for her? have you told her other then you dont agree with her. does she no how much you will be hurting if and when she leaves. i would lay it out, because if she leaves your odds of her comming home to you are not good. so you give her ultamadums, its better then just siting back watching her leave. it might not be the bding thing to do, but man you are stronger then i am, i could not do it, with out letting her know my take on it. that i would not be here waiting for her when she left. and yes when she leaves she is abanding you and your son, that does not bold well in the court system. its time to rattle the cage muddle, she has to see the whole picture, the damage that she is getting into, and where you stand either way. fight for her........
