I have in fact told her that she is free to do what she wants to, and that I'm not going to try to stop her. What I'm conflicted about is whether to suck it up and take time off to "babysit" while she goes, or tell her that I'm not going to do this because of the implications. I know she will choose to see this as an attempt to prevent her going, and I have half a mind to tell her to tell OM that the cost of her services has gone up and he has to pay for a babysitter.
I don't want to keep her away from him (it would be nice if she decided to stay away). I don't want to make it any easier for her to do this, though.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
