Works for me if it works for you. Like I said, there comes a time when we all have to decide what we want and then take action to get it. Your wants/actions may not be the same as mine because as similar as our sitches all may seem, we are all different people with different WAS and different lives, not to mention different abilities to communicate all those things in the posts we make here.
I have come to realize that as good as I am, and you are for that matter, in communicating my sitch to the board, there will NEVER be enough room/time to paint the real picture, even as I understand it, let alone the objective "truth" taking into account her position on things.
My point is that fine, you made a decision that works for you, now you just live it. I think what you are doing has just as much chance to achieve your goals as anything else and applaud you for taking the more difficult path of resisting what you so badly want. I may wish I did more of that in my sitch, we'll see.
As I have said before, I think you will be fine because you are ACTING here and not just reacting.
